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Father Vs Father in law
Somewhere, I met my old friend Mr. Mheik. Said hello. We start to have a small general talk. Immediately he started to teach a lot before i say anything. He shows his wide knowledge in different matters which I did not under stood. What about you?

FATHER Vs FATHER IN LAW:
Mheik
   : Every male should support their parents. I use to give my parents Rs. 10,000 every month. They will feel  happy in their life.
Self       : What about your wife? Did she sent money to her parents?
Mheik   : No. No.  My wife should follow my word. She is not suppose to send any expense money for her parents. It is not correct. 
Self       : Oh, I see. I heard you have two houses. In one house, you asked your parents to stay and sending money for their expense. 
Mheik   :  Yes. Sure. It is my duty.
Self       : Another house you rented to your father in law whose income is 7,000 per month. Do you think it is correct? 
Mheik   : Definitely correct. If they don't like, they can vacate the house any time.  I have never stopped them. It is not my duty to send money to their expense.
Self       : How did your wife agree with this? Does not she have feel pity for her parents?
Mheik   : Normally, what husband says, wife should follow. That is the rule. That is all. When I think it is wrong, I will change my mind. Don't teach me. Your are talking against the truth. At the beginning she demanded to reduce rent, after my strong advise, she never open her mouth.
Self       : From my knowledge both of you have to support your parents and your father in law equally. If I  am wrong sorry for that.
Mr. Mheik walk away.

Wife have right to care their parents?
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Tick if Yes.     Blank if No
Only husband should care his parents.
Wife should not support her family.
Wife should care her parents same like husband.
Husband should not allow wife to send money to her parents
Wife has the right to send money to her parents.
Without husband permission, wife should not take any decision
No need of permission. Only suggestion enough from husband.
Husband can collect rent from father in law. Can vacate if he fail to pay rent.
Husband should think them as his parents. Both are equal.
I have seen like Mr. Mheik nearby. I hate them.
  
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INTEREST NOT ADVISABLE:
 Again I met my friend Mr. Mheik. He smiled and told me that some one asked him some loan for his urgent need.
Self      : What did you said?
Mheik  : Of course it is wrong to borrow loan. It will become a habit and not good for individual according to law.
Self      : What is wrong in it? Of course the borrower will return back the money, Correct?
Mheik  : No. He was ready to pay interest for the loan. But for me interest is not acceptable.
Self      : Did you advise anything?
Mheik  : Yes of course. Best of my knowledge, I advise him to sell his residential house, go to rental house and spend the money for the expense shortage.
Self      : For shortage of money in our daily life, Is it advisable to sell his house?
Mheik  : Instead of borrow money with interest; it is the best option to sell his house. But no interest advisable. I am very strict Pls.
Self      : I heard that so many times your wife borrow Jewell loan from the bank to buy air ticket to abroad and also you bought Housing board house on loan with 18% interest. Is it true? If true is it acceptable for your self and your family?
Mr. Mheik got hot and turns his face. Walk away.

INTEREST
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Tick if Yes.     Blank if No
Collect interest is wrong
Give interest is wrong
Both give and get interest not advisable
Getting Jewell loan with interest is wrong
Personal loan and Home loan for urgency is accepted
It is unnecessary to give advice, if not appreciated
It is our duty to advice even refused to accept
Mr. Mheik is correct in his logic
Mr. Mheik is wrong from his logic
Giving advice to others is easy but for self, hard to obey
  
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